Fertility Anxiety Support for Women Trying to Conceive or Going Through IVF
You’re doing everything right—
but still feel overwhelmed, uncertain, and alone.
Calm the mental spiral.
Regulate your nervous system.
Feel like yourself again during fertility or IVF.
Trying to conceive can quietly become an emotional roller coaster.
You may be doing everything right—tracking, planning, hoping—yet still feel overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure what your body needs.
You’re used to figuring things out.
But this doesn’t respond to effort the way the rest of your life does.
And over time…
The stress builds.
The overthinking doesn’t stop.
You start to feel disconnected from your body—and unsure if you can trust it.
This isn’t just in your mind.
It’s what happens when your body is carrying pressure your mind can’t solve.
This is where we begin.
REAL CLIENT EXPERIENCE
“I was completely burnt out from IVF and the stress around it.
After working with Tori, I felt calmer, more hopeful, and able to keep going.
Things that had been keeping me stuck began to shift.
I felt more relaxed and positive about my fertility journey.
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If this feels familiar:
• You’re high-functioning in every other area of your life—but here, you feel stuck
• You find yourself constantly thinking, researching, or trying to figure out what to do next
• You feel pressure around timing, age, or outcomes
• You’re navigating IVF, IUI, or trying to conceive
• You don’t feel like yourself anymore
You may not say it out loud, but this has become heavier than you expected.
And harder to carry on your own.
When I was trying to conceive my son, everything in my life looked on track.
My career was stable. My marriage was new. I felt ready.
And then nothing happened.
What started as hope quickly turned into pressure, fear, and a quiet sense that something might be wrong.
I remember how confusing that felt—especially when everything else in my life felt so clear and in control.
And the hardest part was feeling alone in it.
Not knowing who to talk to.
Not knowing what to do next.
That experience is why I do this work.
Because no woman should have to carry this on her own.
The Mother Garden
Fertility is not just a medical process.
It is an emotional and identity shift.
I guide my clients to see this time differently.
Not as something to push through or control—
but as a preparation for motherhood.
Like a garden…
There is timing.
There is readiness.
There is growth happening beneath the surface.
Your role is not to force the outcome—
but to create the conditions where life can take root.
This is not about doing less.
It is about doing something different.
When the body is no longer in constant pressure…
When the nervous system begins to settle…
Everything starts to respond differently.
The NewLife Fertility Calm Method
A nervous system-based approach for fertility anxiety support, IVF emotional support, and trying to conceive
• Nervous System Regulation
So your body is no longer operating in constant stress and urgency
• Releasing Internal Pressure
So you are not stuck in overthinking, control, and mental exhaustion
• Mind-Body Fertility Alignment
So your body can begin to respond differently—not just your thoughts
This is the piece most women are missing.
This is how we shift from pressure and overwhelm…
to calm, clarity, and a sense of trust in your body again.
Work With Me
Fertility Reset Session
Start here if things feel overwhelming or unclear.
$350 | 90 Minutes
A personalized session to help you calm fertility anxiety, regulate your nervous system, and feel more grounded and in control.
Best for:
• Two-week wait anxiety
• IVF decisions and next steps
• Emotional overwhelm or burnout
Outcomes:
• Less overthinking and mental spiraling
• Greater clarity and confidence in your next steps
• Feeling calmer, more steady, and more like yourself again
Fertility Support Program
Up to 2 Months | $1250
Ongoing, personalized support using the NewLife Fertility Calm Method
so you feel calmer, more steady, and supported through trying to conceive or IVF.
You are not navigating this alone.
Includes:
• Up to 2 months of support
• 4 private 90-minute sessions
• Custom hypnosis audios after each session
• Support between sessions during key moments
Best for:
• Ongoing fertility anxiety and overthinking
• IVF cycles, decisions, and waiting periods
• Emotional ups and downs, including grief or setbacks
Real Experiences from Women I’ve Worked With
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Working with Tori has been a game-changer in my fertility journey.
“I felt more relaxed, confident, and supported—and it made all the difference in my journey to having my baby.”
— Adriana F -
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I truly believe Tori’s work helped unlock my miracle.
“After 10 years of fertility treatments, I felt like I had tried everything.
Working with Tori helped me release something deeply held—and everything shifted.
A few months later, I became pregnant for the first time.”
— Mel M. -
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I found out I was pregnant naturally after multiple rounds of fertility treatments!
“After 3.5 years of trying and multiple fertility treatments, I felt overwhelmed and anxious.
After working with Tori, I became pregnant naturally. I’m forever grateful.”
— Laura B., NY -
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Tori helped me return to the spiritual and intuitive side of fertility.
“After years of IVF, working with Tori changed everything.
Shortly after our first session, I became pregnant with my daughter.
Her support and custom meditations helped me feel calm, connected, and confident throughout my pregnancy.”
— Sunshine H.
Meet Tori
I’m Tori Quisling, a clinical hypnotherapist and fertility coach with over 30 years of experience.
I help women who feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally stuck during fertility and IVF feel calmer, more grounded, and able to move forward.
This work is personal to me.
When I was trying to conceive my son, what began as hope quickly turned into pressure, fear, and a quiet sense of isolation. It didn’t match the rest of my life, where things felt clear and in control.
That experience shaped everything I do today.
Before this work, I spent many years as a teacher, helping people feel confident, supported, and capable. That same foundation is at the heart of how I work with clients now.
I live in Arizona with my husband and our five cats, while my son is in graduate school in New York. Outside of my work, I feel most at home in nature—hiking, being outdoors, and finding space to reset.
My work is about helping you feel like yourself again, while being supported as you move toward motherhood.
You don’t have to do this alone.
If you’re ready to feel calmer, more supported, and more connected to your body, I invite you to take the next step.
